We got together with my family this weekend, all went pretty well, my mom was in town and it wasn’t as bad as it could have been but wasn’t great either… i don’t want to just let loose and vent but as one of my best friends says this is all therapy, so here goes.
well it was going well till my mom decided that the only one she trusted was Cin, Cin nor I have any idea why that is but oh well just means i didn’t have to do anything, she wouldn’t let me. I did how ever spend lots of time with Nephews and Neice. That was fun, and dinner went well for the most part, my mom was never really ok with my being gay, then with what happened eariler this year, she just can’t understand how it can happen, as she pointed out again.
Then she decided I was just like my “crappy father” her words exactly because of the way I eat pizza. Because I eat my pizza like him I’m now horible like she thinks he is? anyways… We used to have a really good relationship as long as we didn’t talking about the gay thing, but now it seams we have almost nothing there, and never did. Her other words were, I didn’t know you took after that “crapy man”. Ok so it didn’t work for them, but he is still my father, and calling him crapy just stinks.
On a better note the food was awsome everyone should try a honey baked ham, and I got some great gifts. The rest of the family, my brother his wife the kids, and a friend they invited over, all were great and it was a good time.
